good morning. ladies and gentlemen. life has its ups and downs. i bet *ryone here has gone through success and failures, am i right? therefore, what's your understanding of success and failure? what do you think is the *ggest success in one's life? xxx, can you share your idea with us?
personally, i think success and failure are terms that don't necessarily call for a universal definition since all of us have our own definitions. that is to say, people can be succes*ul in different areas such as in one's job and hob*es, living a succes*ul private life, or running a succes*ul relationship. assume that there are two men, one is wealthy and the other is needy. the wealthy one loves * money and is always busy with his work. he is sati*ied with his business though he hardly has time to have dinner with his wife and children. the needy one loves leisure. he has an easy but low-paid job so that he can have time to spend with his family. in general, he could have delicious and warm dinner with his families *ry day. he's happy, too. which one do you think is * succes*ul in his life? in my opinion, they are both succes*ul because they both get what they want.
*ryone will be succes*ul in his or her own area. so, n*r look down on anyone including yourself. one of my friends is crazy about com*r *s, thus neglecting his study. all the teachers regarded him as a failure. but actually he is succes*ul in the *s. he has won the first prize in many e-sports *s.
another example to support my statement. i think that *ryone knows luo yufeng who is in america now. s*rals years ago, she was under the spotlight and attracted a strong criticism. it seemed that her life was utterly a failure since *ryone was laughing at her. but, i think she is succes*ul not because she’s famous but she wanted to immigrant to america and achi*d.
in many cases, whether we are succes*ul or not is judged by others, actually, we should judge it by ourselves. as long as you have your own goal, you know exactly what you want, you are succes*ul when you achi* it. so, leave all the negative comments outside the door. be yourself, follow your own cause and enjoy your own success!
thank you sincerely!
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