when i was young, my father, who always taught me how to be a true man, told me that it is essential to be tolerant in your life what*r happens.
在我年轻的时候，我*总是教导我如何成为真正的男人，他说不管发生什么事情，宽容在你的一生中是很重要的。
and that remains the most valuable present he gave me, i think. to be tolerant, i need to keep calm when great trouble lies in front of me, how*r difficult it is to overcome it; to be tolerant, i need to resist the temptation of all kinds of the outside world, *n if it is so attractive; to be torlerant, i need to pull myself(控制自己情绪) in times of extreme sorrows and joys, no matter how they affect me.
我觉得这是他给我*好的礼物。做到宽容，我需要在*烦摆在我面前而我也很难克服它时保持冷静。做到宽容，我需要*外部世界各种各样的*，即使它很具有吸引力。做到宽容，我需要在悲痛和开心时控制我的情绪，不管它们对我影响有多大。
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