1、选择和什么样的人交往是一件非常重要的事情，他们会潜移默化的影响着你对生活的态度，以及看世界的角度。
it is very important to choose what kind of people to associate with. they will influence your attitude towards life and the perspective of the world.
2、难过了悲伤一下没关系，想哭了哭一下没关系，一个人孤单一下也没关系。给时间一点时间，一切都会过去的。
it doesn't matter if you are sad or sad. it doesn't matter if you want to cry. it doesn't matter if you are alone. give time and *rything will pass.
3、生活如花朵，姹紫嫣红；生活如歌声，美妙动听；生活如美酒，芳香清醇；生活如小诗，意境深远，绚丽多彩。
life is like flowers, colorful; life is like singing, beautiful; life is like wine, fragrant and mellow; life is like a poem, with profound and colorful artistic conception.
4、原来岁月并不是真的逝去，他只是从我们的眼前消失，却转过来躲在我们心里，*再慢慢的改变我们的容颜。
the original years are not really gone, he just disappeared from our eyes, but turned to hide in our hearts, and then slowly change our face.
5、已婚的人从对方获得的那种快乐，仅仅是婚姻的开头，绝不是其全部意义。婚姻的全部含义蕴藏在家庭生活中。
the happiness that married people get from each other is only the beginning of marriage, not the whole meaning. the whole meaning of marriage lies in family life.
6、我要用怎样无所谓的表情，才能伪装对你的在乎。我要用怎样的平淡，才能赢回我那因爱你而碎了一地的自尊。
i have to use how indifferent expression, in order to disguise care about you. i have to use what kind of insipid, in order to win back my self-esteem which was broken because of my love for you.
7、年轻的时候，我们以为爱是关心，是占有，是依赖；后来才明白，还有一种爱是放手，是成全，是让对方自由。
when we were young, we thought that love was care, possession and dependence; later we realized that there was another kind of love, which was to let go, to fulfill, and to let the other party free.
8、其实不管你爱过多少人，不管你爱的多么快乐或痛苦，到*后你不是学会了怎样去爱，而是学会了怎样爱自己。
in fact, no matter how many people you love, no matter how happy or painful you love, in the end, you do not learn how to love, but how to love yourself.
9、你们人不停地奔跑追寻一些很虚浮的东西，可实际真正让你们放松快乐了的东西往往是你们童年时的简单拥有。
you people are constantly running after something that is very vain, but what really makes you relaxed and happy is often the * possession you had in your childhood.
10、摊开掌心对着天空，掌心里有阳光，那是我想你时莞尔的笑容；掌心里有雨滴，那是我思念你偶尔滴落的泪水。
open the palm to the sky, the palm of the sun, that is when i miss you smile; palms have rain*s, it is the tears i miss you occasionally.
11、逢人只说三分话，不可全抛一片心。大多数人口中的怎么了只是为了满足好奇心，并没有要帮助你的意思。
when you talk to people only, you can't throw all your heart away. what's wrong in most people is just to sati*y curiosity, not to * you.
12、要么承担，要么突破，剩余的时间就是对你的所经历的一切保持沉默。终有一天，这沉默里会获得道路和答案。
take on or break through, and the rest of the time is silence about what you're going through. one day, there will be a way and an answer in this silence.
13、生活里不必要渴求别人的理解和认同，因为别*没有这些义务。静静地过自己的生活，心若不动，风又奈何。
there is no need to yearn for other people's understanding and recognition in life, because others do not have these obligations. live your life quietly. if your heart doesn't move, what can the wind do.
14、有的人把心都掏给你了，你却假装没看见，因为你不喜欢。有的人把你的心都掏了，你还假装不疼，因为你爱。
some people take out their heart to you, but you pretend not to see, because you don't like it. some people take out your heart, you still pretend not to hurt, because you love.
15、真正的爱情，不是付出全部，而是让自己成为更好的人。爱一个人没有回应，与其乞讨爱情，不如骄傲地走开。
true love is not to give *rything, but to make yourself a better person. love a person does not respond, rather than begging for love, it is better to walk away proud.
16、命运像是*名贵的丝绢，再怎样巧夺天工，拿到手上看，总透出丝丝缕缕的光，那些错落，是与生俱行的原罪。
fate is like the most precious silk. no matter how skillful it is, if you look at it in your hand, it will always r*al wisps of light.
17、当你失败的时候，身边会有一群关心你的人，他们会问你发生了什么，听听你的失败经验，*心满意足地离开。
when you fail, there will be a group of people who care about you, they will ask you what happened, listen to your failure experience, and then leave sati*ied.
18、在茫茫人海中相遇相知相守无论谁都不会一帆风顺，只有一颗舍得付出懂得感恩的心才能拥有一生的爱和幸福。
in the vast sea of people meet, know each other, no matter who will not be smooth sailing, only a willing to pay know how to appreciate the heart can have a lifetime of love and happiness.
19、你要学着无论遇到什么事情，欣喜、悲伤或是濒临崩溃，都能够不动声色自己处理。自己辨别对错，好好成长。
you have to learn that no matter what happens, joy, sadness or near collapse, you can handle it by yourself. distinguish right from wrong and grow up well.
20、每一个懂事淡定的现在，都有一个很傻很天真的过去。每一个温暖而淡然的如今，都有一个悲伤而不安的曾经。
*ry sensible and calm now, there is a very * past. *ry warm and indifferent now, there is a sad and uneasy once.
21、你尽量照顾每个人的感受，不想身边的人不开心，你总能发现他们情绪的细微变化，可*后被撇下的永远是你。
you try to take care of *ryone's feelings. you don't want people around you to be unhappy. you can always find subtle changes in their emotions, but you will always be left behind.
22、时间告诉你什么叫衰老，回忆告诉你什么叫幼稚。不要总在过去的回忆里缠绵，昨天的太阳晒不干今天的衣裳。
time tells you what is aging, memory tells you what is childish. do not always in the past memories lingering, yesterday's sun drying today's clothes.
23、据说人悲伤的极限是5天，很多烦恼其实都没什么大不了，只是你在那个情境下，在那种心情里，庸人自扰罢了。
it is said that the limit of people's grief is five days. many troubles are not a *g deal. it's just that you are in that situation and in that mood.
24、可能岁月会惊扰走过的年轮，修饰匆匆里的记忆，但时间的轴轮会在初见时，林荫下，深情地凝望中成为永恒。
perhaps years will disturb the passing rings and decorate the memories in a hurry, but the axis of time will become eternal in the first sight, under the shade of the trees and gazing affectionately.
25、除了生老病死，人生里真正重要的事，其实没有几件。没必要为了小事愁容满面，也没必要去跟小人争个长短。
in addition to *rth, aging, disease and death, there are few really important things in life. there is no need to worry about small things, there is no need to argue with villains.
26、你眼里风花雪月，既爱着豪迈山河，又眷着夜夜笙歌，我分明一点也惊不着你还这么担心受怕，我也是不甘心。
in your eyes, both love the *ic mountains and rivers, but also attached to the night song, i clearly do not surprise you, you are still so worried, i am not reconciled.
27、每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易被时间和惰性消磨，很多时候，你不逼自己一把，都不知道自己多么优秀！
how excellent you are, how lazy you are when you have a lot of time with yourself!
28、你想要的东西很贵，你想去的地方都很远，只有不停的努力，才能攒好足够的勇气，跨过人生中的每一场冒险。
what you want is very expensive. you want to go far away. only by working hard, can you gather enough courage to cross *ry adventure in your life.
29、想知道一个人有没有把你放在心里，不要去问，要用心去感受，其实感情没有那么难懂，只有两个字惦记！
want to know if a person has you in the heart, do not ask, to feel, in fact, the feelings are not so difficult to understand, only two words care!
30、不开心的时候总想做点什么事，比如剪短发，跑十公里，删掉所有的朋友圈和微博，而事实上，你只能好好过。
when you are unhappy, you always want to do something, such as cutting your hair, running 10 kilometers, deleting all your circle of friends and weibo. in fact, you can only have a good time.
31、不必仰望别人，每个人都有自己的风景。你没有天生丽质，但可以天生励志；没有长得漂亮，但可以活得漂亮！
you don't have to look at others. *ryone has his own scenery. you don't have natural beauty, but you can be inspirational; you don't look beautiful, but you can live beautiful!
32、你的好对别人来说，就像一颗糖，吃了就没了。反之，你的坏，对别人来说，就像一个疤痕，留下了就*在。
your good to others, just like a sugar, eat not. on the contrary, your bad, for others, like a scar, left on the permanent.
33、*合适的两个人，不一定是一开始就一拍即合，而是愿意在未来漫长的岁月里，为了彼此而变成更好的两个人。
the most suitable two people, not necessarily at the beginning, but willing to become better two people for each other in the long years to come.
34、如果你不够优秀，人脉是不值钱的，它不是追求来的，而是吸引来的。只有等价的交换，才能得到合理的帮助。
if you're not good enough, networking is not valuable, it's not to be pursued, but to attract. only equivalent exchange can get reasonable *.
35、我们不应该卑微的活着，努力地去做对方想要的样子。改变自己，终将会失去自己，坚持自己，才能活出自我。
we should not live humbly and try to be what each other wants. if you change yourself, you will lose yourself. if you insist on yourself, you can live yourself.
36、睡觉是一种解脱，睡着了就会不悲不气，不烦恼不孤单，是上帝赐予你短暂失忆的时间，愿美梦治愈你的难过。
sleep is a kind of relief. if you fall asleep, you will not be sad or angry, you will not be worried or lonely. god will give you a short time to lose your memory. may the beautiful dream cure your sadness.
37、努力的意义，不在于一定会让你取得多大的成就，只是让你在平凡的日子里，活得比原来的那个自己更好一点。
the significance of hard work is not to make you achi* much, but to make you live better than your original self in ordinary days.
38、无须缅怀昨天，不必奢望明天，只要认真过好每个今天，说能说的话，做可做的事，走该走的路，见想见的人。
there is no need to cherish the memory of yesterday or tomorrow. as long as you live a good life *ry day, say what you can say, do what you can do, take the road you should take and meet the people you want to see.
39、以一颗无尘的心，还原生命的本真。有生之年，只诉温暖不言殇，花味渐浓，茶味渐醇，倾心相遇，安暖相陪。
with a clean heart, to restore the essence of life. in my lifetime, i only talk about the warmth, not the pain, the flower flavor gradually strong, the tea flavor gradually mellow, the heart meets, the security warm accompanies.
40、你总爱问，爱*什么？可我总是说不出个所以然，只因一切都是，情不知所起一往情深，遇见你，遇见幸福。
you always like to ask, what do you love? but i always can't say why, just because *rything is, i don't know what to do, love deeply, meet you, meet happiness.
41、我们需要一个人，一个很亲密能够在浴室里为你递上毛巾、衣裤的人。你小的时候是父母，长大了是你的爱人。
we need a person, someone close enough to hand you towels and clothes in the bathroom. you were a parent when you were a child and a lover when you grew up.
42、虽时光清浅，岁月绵长，但只要心怀感恩与慈悲，相信你所有的苦难，都是虚惊一场；所有美好，都如期如常！
although the time is * and the years are long, as long as you are grateful and compassionate, i beli* that all your suffering is a false alarm; all the good things are as usual!
43、拖延才是*彻底的拒绝吧，看似还留有一丝温情，其实说白了，他不仅不爱你，还懒得跟你解释为什么不爱你。
procrastination is the most thorough refusal. it seems that there is still a trace of warmth. in fact, he does not love you, and he is too lazy to explain why he does not love you.
44、真正意识到你不是陪我走过一生的人，大概是在我急需帮助时第一个想到你，但随后又立马打消这个念头时吧。
the real realization that you are not the person who has accompanied me through my life is probably the first time i think of you when i am in urgent need of *, but then i immediately give up the idea.
45、喜欢一个人，始于颜值，陷于才华，忠于人品，痴于*，迷于声音，醉于深情，*后，折于物质，败于现实。
like a person, start from appearance, fall into talent, loyal to character, infatuated with the body, infatuated with sound, intoxicated with deep feeling, finally, break down in material, lose in reality.
46、要么敢爱敢恨快意人生，要么没心没肺扮傻到底，别让自己活成了那种懂得很多道理，却也过不好这一生的人。
either dare to love and hate happy life, or heartless to play a fool in the end, don't let yourself live into the kind of people who know a lot of truth, but also have a bad life.
47、人啊，长了颗红楼梦的心，却生活在*的世界，想交些三国里的桃园兄弟，却总遇到些*记里的妖魔鬼怪。
people, with a dream of red mansions, live in the world of water margin. they want to make friends with taoyuan brothers in the three kingdoms, but they always encounter some *s and *s in the journey to the west.
48、相遇总是猝不及防，也许是今天，也许是明天。你终会遇见那个让你惊艳的人。莫要负了良辰美景，佳人难觅。
encounter is always caught off guard, maybe today, maybe tomorrow. you'll meet the one who makes you amazing. don't miss the beautiful scenery on a good day.
49、我羡慕太阳，他能看见你*的笑脸，我羡慕月亮，她能凝视你安祥地入睡，我羡慕自己，至少能时刻想念你。
i envy the sun, he can see your brilliant smile, i envy the moon, she can gaze at you peacefully fall asleep, i envy myself, at least can always miss you.
50、所有的花开，都有*的理由，所有的叶落，都写着浓郁的牵挂，遇见，只是一个开始，珍惜，才能相伴一生。
all the flowers, there are warm reasons, all the leaves, are written with a strong concern, meet, only a start, cherish, can accompany life.
51、好想好想回到那片森林，牵紧那双纤纤玉手不再离分，好想好想返回那个深秋，在雨中追着载有你的列车狂奔。
i really want to go back to that forest, hold that pair of slender jade hands no longer separate, i want to return to that late autumn, chasing the train carrying you in the rain.
52、我们总说，爱一个人，就要保护他，不让他*害。是得，保护他不被别人所伤害，更要保护他不被你所伤害。
we always say that if we love a person, we should protect him from being hurt. yes, to protect him from being hurt by others, but also to protect him from being hurt by you.
53、如果只是友情的话，能好好做朋友就好好做朋友吧，不要太贪心了。爱情这种事太极端，要么一生，要么陌生。
if it's just friendship, if you can be a good friend, be a good friend, don't be too greedy. love this kind of thing extreme, either life, or strange.
54、真心喜欢过的人没法做朋友，哪怕再多看几眼，都还是想拥有。我从未放弃过爱你，只是从浓烈变得悄无声息。
people who really like them can't be friends. *n if they look at them *, they still want to have them. i n*r give up love you, just from strong to silent.
55、每个人的抽屉里，都曾有一封写好，却没有勇气寄出的信。每个人的心中，都有一个渴望，却不曾牵手的爱人。
in *ryone's drawer, there was a letter written well, but did not have the courage to send it. in *ryone's heart, there is a lover who yearns but n*r holds hands.
56、年龄大了，电话也不响了，微信也没人聊了，好友越来越少了，*也只有10086了，日子过得是越来越清净了。
as i get older, the phone doesn't ring, no one talks on wechat, there are fewer and fewer friends, and the *rmation is only 10086. my life is getting cleaner and cleaner.
57、打个巴掌给颗糖吃的生活我过够了，辛酸和*屈也尝够了。现在我明白了，*曲求全并不会换来半点关心和愧疚。
i've had enough of slapping a candy, and i've tasted enough *tterness and grievances. now i've learned that there's no need for a little care and guilt.
58、寂寥红尘，谁曾陪谁看烟花绚烂，早已成往事。就让这沥沥夜雨，*所有思念，断了过去，让明天好好继续。
lonely world of mortals, who has accompanied who to see fireworks gorgeous, has long been a thing of the past. let the night rain, wet all miss, break the past, let tomorrow continue.
59、那一年我二十一岁，在我一生的黄金时代，我有好多奢望。我想爱，想吃，还想在一瞬间变成天上半明半暗的云。
i was 21 years old that year. in the golden age of my life, i had a lot of extravagant hopes. i want to love, want to eat, but also want to become a half bright cloud in the sky in an instant.
60、她的举止不轻浮，也不羞羞答答；她不失端仪的抿嘴一笑，发出深情的邀请，落落大方，使人有似曾相识之感。
her manner was neither frivolous nor bashful; she did not lose the chuckle of duanyi and sent out a deep invitation, which made people feel familiar.
61、人生的路，没有绝境，只要寻找，总有路可走。人生的情，虽然难守，但是总有人陪你终老，再长也不觉得苦。
there is no hopelessness in the road of life. as long as you look for it, there is always a way to go. although the feelings of life, although difficult to keep, but there are always someone to accompany you, no longer feel *tter.
62、情不知所起，一往而深；恨不知所踪，一笑而泯。我会用尽年少时的青春来爱你，此后便拿余生的苍老来忘你。
love does not rise, go deep; hate does not follow, a smile and die. i will use my youth to love you, and then i will forget you with the rest of my life.
